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Love and Limits:

Parenting with Good Sense

Project members are staff of the
University of Minnesota Extension Service:

Ellen Schuster, principal investigator
Julie Despot, project coordinator
Ron Pitzer, project consultant
Judy Carver, Clearwater Country EFNEP
Pru Lolich, St. Louis County EFNEP
Betty McAllister, Cass County EFNEP
Mary Overcash, Kandiyohi County EFNEP
Melinda Re, Crow Wing County EFNEP



Table of Contents


Leader's Guide

Some Basic Principles
of Parent Education for Low-Income Families

When Parents Don't Say No:
The Home Visitor's Role in the
Discipline of Participants' Children

Understanding Young Children:
A Brush-up on Basics

Lesson 1 — Handling Temper Tantrums
       Handout: Temper Tantrums

Lesson 2 — Focus on "Do" Instead of "Don't"
      Handout: Focus on "DO" Instead of "DON'T"

Lesson 3 — Listen to Your Children
      Handout: Listen to Your Children
      Handout: Hints on Communicating with Children
      Handout: Self-Test: Do You Listen to Your Children?

Lesson 4 — What Do You Expect?
      Handout: Do You Expect Too Much?

Lesson 5 — Shopping With Children
      Handout: Shopping with Young Children

Lesson 6 — Preventing Misbehavior
      Handout: Setting Limits
      Handout: Setting a Good Example
      Handout: Gaining Cooperation
      Handout: Changing the Environment

Lesson 7 — Sibling Rivalry
      Handout: Growing Up With Brothers and Sisters

Lesson 8 — Building Self-Esteem in Children
      Building Self-Esteem in Children: Case Situations
      Handout: Helping Children Like Themselves




This project was funded by a grant from the Children's Trust Fund of Minnesota. -

Produced by Communication and Educational Technology Services, University of Minnesota Extension.

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