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Families and Inheritance: Tips for Planning Ahead

Marlene Stum, Professor and Extension Specialist, Department of Family Social Science

Reviewed February 2012

Planning ahead for inheritance versus waiting until a crisis or death does have benefits. These include more choices, a chance for thoughtful communication, and fewer family conflicts. The award winning book, "Who Gets Grandma's Yellow Pie Plate?™," provides a positive planning process to transfer non-titled property. The book is based on research with families and attorneys and is designed to help overcome common inheritance decision-making obstacles.

To avoid common obstacles the book encourages family members to:

  • Recognize the sensitivity of the issue
  • Determine what you want to accomplish
  • Decide what's "fair" for your family
  • Understand belongings have different meanings to different individuals
  • Consider distribution options and consequences
  • Agree to manage conflicts if they arise

Whether planning ahead or making decisions when someone dies, the book is a must-read. It is a step-by-step guide filled with worksheets, practical suggestions, proven strategies, and real-life stories.

For more information, see the Who Gets Grandma’s Yellow Pie Plate?TM Workbook (booklet or interactive CD) or Resources for Families.

Contact: pdolson@umn.edu   

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