The Transgender Toolkit
“What’s all this talk about gender pronouns? And what does it really mean to be transgender anyway? What’s up with this gender neutral bathroom thing?”
We’ve all put our foot in our mouths when talking about gender. It’s a complicated topic! Gender is core to the identity and reality of children, youth, and families. On this page, you’ll find resources about this topic and how to talk about it.
Glossary of Terms
Gender: Refers to cultural ideas of masculinity and femininity used to organize identities, behaviors, and social roles.
Gender identity: Refers to how people think about themselves in regard to the labels of “girl,” “woman,” “boy,” “man,” or some other label (e.g. androgynous, transgender, gender nonconforming, etc).
Gender expression: How individuals enact and exhibit their gender identity.
Gender roles or gender norms: Refers to how girls and boys, women and men, are expected to behave in a given society.
Cisgender: Refers to a person whose gender identity and expression are aligned with the sex they were assigned at birth.
Trans (shorthand for transgender): A descriptive term inclusive of the spectrum of individuals whose assigned sex at birth does not align with their own sense of gender identity and those who do not conform to societal gender norms.
Gender Nonconforming: A descriptive term and/or identity of a person who has a gender identity and/or expression that does not conform to the traditional expectations of the gender they were assigned at birth. People who identify as “gender nonconforming” or “gender variant” may or may not also identify as “transgender.”
Lessons from the Field
Meeting the Needs of Transgender Youth — During winter and spring of 2017, CYFC hosted seven regional events for parents, educators, and professionals who work with families and youth. These interactional and workshop-based events covered current research and prevailing perspectives that promote well-being among all youth.
Children's Mental Health eReview
Children's Mental Health eReview: Transgender Youth — Learn about the mental health of transgender youth, including the role of family, school and community in promoting resilience.
Trans Youth Mental Health Journal Articles (268 K PDF) — Research on the health and well-being of transgender youth in the context of families, schools, and community.
Gender and Mental Health Journal Articles (145 K PDF) — Research on mental health as it relates to gender identity development, sexual orientation, gender variation and related issues.
Transgender Topics — A playlist of videos answering questions about trans identity, gender fluidity, being gender non-conforming, and other topics surrounding gender.
Web Resources about Trans Youth
Trans Student Educational Resources (TSER) — This national organization led by trans youth is dedicated to transforming the educational environment for transgender and gender nonconforming students.
TransKids Purple Rainbow Foundation (TKPRF) — This foundation is committed to enhancing the lives of trans youth by educating schools, places of worship, the medical community, government agencies, and society in general, in an effort to seek fair and equal treatment for all trans youth.
TransYouth Family Allies — This nonprofit empowers children and families by partnering with educators, service providers, and communities to develop supportive environments in which gender is supported and respected.
Resources for Educators and Families
Children's Book Review – Transgender Youth (200 K PDF) — A collection of books for young children, young adults, and teenagers that feature transgender or gender nonconforming characters
Lessons From the Field: Supporting Trans Youth Resource List for Educators, Families, and K-12 Students (198 K PDF) — Additional resources to support transgender and gender nonconforming students in schools.
These are local organizations serving trans youth and LGB populations.
OutFront Minnesota — This coalition’s mission is to create a state where lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer people are free to be who they are, love who they love, and live without fear of violence, harassment or discrimination.
PFLAG Twin Cities Chapter — This nonprofit civil rights organization provides programs, meetings, and support groups for parents, friends, families, and allies of LGBT persons.
RECLAIM — This organization works to increase access to mental health support so that queer and trans youth may reclaim their lives from oppression in all its forms.
Minnesota Transgender Health Coalition — This coalition offers several free services to the transgender and gender nonconforming community.
Center for Sexual Health — University of Minnesota — This clinic specializes in the health of transgender and gender nonconforming youth.
Family Tree Clinic — This community clinic is committed to improving the health of lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans, and queer individuals through affordable, respectful sexual health care and education.
Out 4 Good — Minneapolis Public Schools — This program is dedicated to creating safe and supportive schools for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender students, families, teachers, and staff.
Out for Equity — Saint Paul Public School District — This program strives to maintain a safe and welcoming school environment that fosters positive self-esteem, respect for others, and academic success for all lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, and questioning students, staff members, and families.